End of Life

Funerals, Celebrations of Life, Memorials - for People + Pets

Your loved one’s time is complete. 

And so, we gather together. 

To honour their time with us. To speak the important words. And to say goodbye.

“When we gather in grief, we create a sacred space where sorrow and love coexist. Together, we honor what was lost, hold one another up, and find solace in shared remembrance.”

End of Life Ceremonies and Services offer a gathering of people, who come together in their love and admiration for the deceased, a sacred space and loving container in which to grieve. 

Here by sharing stories and memories about the deceased, attendees support each other by publicly acknowledging, honouring and celebrating the death of their loved one, friend or colleague. 

A ceremony or service allows all to move through a ceremonial transition of having someone in their life, to no longer having them around - a sad but important transition.

And just as every journey through life is different, so too is each celebration and remembrance of life.

  • Traditionally, a funeral is a service with a body in a casket and includes a Viewing, a Funeral Service or Ceremony, an Internment or Burial, followed by a Reception. And are often held shortly after death, especially if burial is chosen due to preservation concerns.

  • A Celebration of Life focuses more on sharing the story of the deceased’s life and coming together to celebrate a life well lived. And can be held at any time after death - even years later. And remains need not be present.

  • A Memorial is a bit of a hybrid between a Funeral and A Celebration of Life, and is often used interchangeably to describe a service for a loved one. And ashes or remains may or may not be present.

  • An Internment, Burial or Scattering Ashes is about laying your loved one to rest - whether in a cemetery, alcove or your favourite spot out in nature, or other place of significance.

  • Traditionally, wakes are held before a funeral and provide an opportunity for people to visit the deceased’s body. But often the word “wake” is also used interchangeably with “A Celebration of Life”

  • When the time comes to say goodbye to our beloved pets and animal companions, whether due to age or illness, it can be an incredibly emotional and challenging experience. They are such beautiful companions and offer such unconditional love and deserve to be honoured and celebrated. Through personalized ceremonies, we can honor their lives and the bond you shared in a way that feels deeply meaningful to you. This might include a burial, a memorial (with or without the scattering of ashes), or the creation of heartfelt rituals to support their transition if they are being gently released through euthanasia.

  • "Katie did a beautiful job officiating a family member's celebration of life recently. She was well spoken, kind, and created a lovely experience in a difficult time."

    ~ SF

  • "Katie was amazing and made our event the best it could possibly be. She honoured all of our wishes for the ceremony and added her own personal flare, which made it even better!"

    ~ Stari Tupper

  • "Katie lead the memorial service after the passing of my mother. Katie talked us through the various options for service, and provided us the template and means to plan a service that was fitting to our family. With a balance of music, pictures, stories and song, Katie guided us through exactly what we wanted that afternoon to be. Thank you!!"

    ~ Rob Tupper

  • "It's always hard to say goodbye for someone you loved and cared for. Katie made the process easier through stories, photos, laughter and tears. She took the time to connect with the family and to learn what she needed to know and shared their thoughts and stories with the gathering.It was a wonderful ceremony - well done Katie!"

    ~ Dave

Next Steps - Ceremony Process

Reach out to me with your thoughts about what kind of End of Life Ceremony you’re looking for and check out my availability.

We then connect for a brief 30-min consultation so that I can learn the particulars of what you’re looking for and so that you can get to know me a bit and see if I’m the Celebrant for you.

From there, I’ll send you a written questionnaire to fill out and send back to me. Sitting down to write things out allows time for reflection and space to feel, to grieve.

From here we’ll enter into the healing space of conversation and storytelling — recounting your memories of your loved one, until we’ve captured a full and rich picture of the person they were and the life they lived.

With your answers to guide me, I write up a draft of your ceremony and all of its elements for your approval and edit it until you’re delighted.

Day of, we meet up sometime beforehand to arrange everything.

And then it’s Ceremony time — we create a beautiful space of love and memories about the deceased.

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